Over my years of walking with the Lord, I’ve encountered a wide range of stories and testimonies involving children with disabilities. Some from Christians. Some from non-Christians. Shared online, in interviews, documentaries, or parenting blogs. And the overall belief says: “This is just how some children are.”

Because of lack of knowledge of God’s Word, instead of resisting what the Word of God calls oppression of the enemy, many parents have been trained by the world, by well-meaning professionals, and even by parts of the Church to embrace sickness as identity, as just how they are.

In one recent story I came across, a father shared about his seven-year-old son who has cerebral palsy. The child has seizures, cannot speak, wears diapers, and can only move slightly by scooting on his belly. He must be spoon-fed, etc. His life revolves around therapies, medications, and supervision. And yet, the father quickly followed all of this by saying, “But he’s such a happy child. He smiles. He laughs when he sees colorful toys. He’s happy in his own little world.”

And that’s the part that pierced my heart. Because I’ve heard that same line many times from well-meaning parents whose children are severely bound by the symptoms of sickness: “But my child is a happy child.”

But what if that laughter, those smiles…aren’t what they seem?

Let me speak very plainly.

What if those moments of laughter that those parents call happiness are not truly of the child at all, but rather a counterfeit manifestation, a demonic spirit producing laughter and smiles to distract the parents so they do not resist sickness because they believe their child is “happy just the way they are” as the smiles “prove”? What if the enemy, the source of the child’s suffering under seizures, paralysis, muteness, and complete dependency, intentionally stirs up surface-level smiles and joyful expressions in order to deceive?

It may sound out there to some, but I believe this deception is real.

Because what I’ve observed over and over is that parents, wanting to hold on to something good, to comfort themselves, begin to equate and interpret their child’s smiles with peace. But their smiles don’t negate the severe bondage of sickness coming against their bodies and souls. Sensory stimulation is not joy. Laughter does not equal liberty. Especially when the rest of the child’s life is surrounded by suffering, bondage, and infirmity.

And let’s be clear: this is NOT a criticism of the parent’s love. These parents love their children fiercely. They are just repeating the world’s report because they don’t know the Lord’s report (Isaiah 53:1). Sadly, most churches don’t teach His report and contribute to parents’ lack of knowledge of God’s truth. They’ve only been taught to see the entire diagnosis as who their child is, and any sign of sweetness or smiles as “proof” that “all is well,“nothing to see here because the child must be happy because he smiles.”

“My child is mute, has seizures, wears diapers, can’t eat on their own, but they’re always smiling!”

Again, I’ve heard similar words from parents of disabled children before. But would the Lord have us define a child’s happiness and health by smiles and happy facial expressions alone. Children smile when they’re over-stimulated. People high on drugs smile and laugh too. But that doesn’t mean it’s joy from the Lord.

This is why Scripture warns us to guard our hearts.

Why Even Share This?

Because it would be easy to let other parents’ emotions pull you into agreement with something that isn’t biblical. Because the Word of God tells us to guard our hearts above all else. To guard our hearts includes never leaning on stories or sentiments, no matter how emotional, more than we lean on His truth.

“Keep your heart with all diligence,
For out of it spring the issues of life.”
Proverbs 4:23, NKJV

There are countless “testimonies” floating around the Church and the world, stories that normalize paralysis, seizures, muteness, and brain damage as part of a child’s identity. But that doesn’t mean they’re in agreement with the Word of God.

Just because someone calls something a testimony doesn’t make it true.
Only the Word of God defines what is true.

“Let God be true but every man a liar.”
Romans 3:4, NKJV

What Does the Word Say?

The Word says that Jesus healed children.
The Word says that He healed birth defects, paralysis, muteness, deafness, blindness, seizures. Every kind of affliction sickness and disease.

He NEVER once told a parent, “This is just how your child is. Go ye therefore and be sick and remain bound with sickness as a calling.”

“And great multitudes came to Him, having with them those who were lame, blind, mute, maimed, and many others; and they laid them down at Jesus’ feet, and He healed them.
Matthew 15:30, NKJV

“And He healed them all.
Matthew 12:15, NKJV

Jesus didn’t turn people away. He didn’t call lifelong sickness a “ministry.” He didn’t say, “You’re going to be sick to glorify Me.” That is false theology. Lies from the serpent’s tongue. He said the opposite.

“For this purpose the Son of God was manifested,
that He might destroy the works of the devil.”
1 John 3:8, NKJV

And what are the works of the devil? According to Acts 10:38:

“…Jesus of Nazareth… went about doing good and healing all who were oppressed by the devil, for God was with Him.”

Sickness. Seizures. Muteness. These are the oppression of the devil, and Jesus came to destroy them.

In Mark 2, when the paralyzed man was healed, Jesus made it very clear that healing is a witness to His power to forgive sins and redeem man:

“But that you may know that the Son of Man has power on earth to forgive sins”—He said to the paralytic, “I say to you, arise, take up your bed, and go to your house.”
Mark 2:10–11, NKJV

Healing proves the Gospel.
Sickness does not.
Sickness came with the fall. Healing comes with the Redeemer.

To embrace sickness as “part of who the child is” is to unknowingly agree with a different report – one that did not come from Jesus Christ, the Word.

Don’t Settle for Anything Less Than His Word

As believers, we must reject the world’s report that teaches us to accept sickness,including as identity. We must stop saying “Amen” to captivity. We must guard our hearts against the flood of stories that glorify captivity but reject Christ’s deliverance.

Jesus did not come to preach captivity. He came to set the captives free.

“The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me,
Because He has anointed Me
To preach the gospel to the poor;
He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted,
To proclaim liberty to the captives
And recovery of sight to the blind,
To set at liberty those who are oppressed;
Luke 4:18, NKJV

There is only one report that matters.
There is only one perfect representation of the Father.

Jesus Christ who healed them all.

2 responses to “Don’t Let the Smile Deceive You: Guarding Your Heart When the World Embraces Captivity & Deception”

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    isaiah53iamhealed

    AMEN, AMEN, AMEN 🙏, THANK YOU, JESUS. THIS IS WELL-MEANING, BECAUSE FIRST OF ALL, IF YOU LISTEN TO SOME OF THEM GIGGLING LIKE THAT, SOMETIMES IT CAN SOUND LIKE IT DOESN’T SOUND LIKE TO ME. I CAN’T SPEAK TO ANYBODY ELSE. SOMETIMES IT SOUNDS LIKE IT’S NOT THEM, AND MY MOTHER WAS THE FIRST ONE TOLD ME THAT IT’S ALL A SPIRIT. AND I BELIEVE THAT GIGGLING DON’T MEAN NOTHING AND ALL THE CHOICES IN THESE PAN, I DON’T PAY ATTENTION TO PARENTS LIKE THAT THEY’RE NOT MY TYPE.I MET THEM FEEL FOR THEM.WELL, WHAT THEY WANT TO BELIEVE IS THAT DIFFERENCE?SO YESTERDAY I WAS READING SCRIPTURES, TWO CORINTHIANS 4:18 AND IT REALLY SPOKE TO ME AND I JUST BELIEVED IT AND I’VE ALWAYS BELIEVED IT, AND THEN TODAY I HEARD THE LORD TOLD ME YOUR DAUGHTER IS HEALED. I ALSO ALL OF A SUDDEN, I WENT TO ROMANS, 417 CALL OUT THINGS AND BE NOT AS THOUGH THEY WERE AND I’VE ALWAYS DID THAT. I CALLED MY DAUGHTER NORMAL NO MATTER WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE, NO MATTER WHAT SHE’S DOING. I DON’T WANT TO THANK YOU FOR A BEAUTIFUL ARTICLE. IT’S SO TRUE. WHERE TO LOOK AT THE WORD OF GOD, NOT THE SYMPTOMS YOU HAVE A BLESSED DAY, YOU AND YOUR SON AND YOUR FAMILY AND LOVE THE MUSIC. BYE BYE.📖✝️🔥🙏🕊🤍❤️💙🩷🩷🧡💛💚🩵💜🤎🩶🤍💯

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  2. TT Translates Avatar

    Yes indeed. A wonderful wonderful read. The persistent widow in Luke 18 didn’t relent. The blind beggar when passers by told him “keep ya mouth shut” in the same Luke 18 didn’t relent either. We must reject the report of the world concerning our offspring by prayer and fasting 🙏 🙌 ❤️ and lower our cognitively and physically paralysed children to the feet and attention of christ (Luke 5)! Let’s also remember Exo 20.21 “…the people stood afar off and Moses approached the thick darkness where God was.” Jehovah Jireh is still there in the thick darkness of the persistently prayerful parent, people will stand afar, come and go, stare, smile and leave but God is still with us in the thick darkness. Never are the determined to relent. Let us in the same discernment as the woman who “looked closely in the morning light” and said “behold, indeed he was not my son whom I had borne” (1 Kings 3.21) reject every satanic attempt to steal, swap and swipe our children. The prayerful who know will know 🙏 🙏

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He Healed Them ALL

“Then Jesus answered and said to them, “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner,” (John 5:19).

Jesus only did what He saw the Father do, so He healed every kind of sickness and every kind of disease, every kind of disability, even if they were born that way.

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